Skin Deep: Is the "Mom Job" Really Necessary?

I was just appalled when I read this recent article in the NY Times Skin Deep: Is the 'Mom Job' Really Necessary? http://www.nytimes.com/2007/10/04/fashion/04skin.html?emc=eta1

It seems that all moms in America are being told that their body after baby is not acceptable and that plastic surgery is the only answer. I visit the gym and see moms everywhere that have been tucked, lipo'd and siliconed. My goodness, what does this tell our children? What does this mean for the women who can't afford plastic surgery? How do the women who choose not to be sucked and inflated feel in comparison? How many women are unhappy because of complications that happen during these serious surgeries? I am not wanting to make judgment on any one person who has decided to get a "mom job." I am more concerned about the state of our society that we feel such pressure to look a certain way. There are many ways to take care of your body and bring your body back to strength after baby. Obviously, I focus on those changes every day in my classes. I'm just really concerned about the message and the pressure that moms have today. Instead of mommy makeovers, I would love for us to be more focused on being model moms. Healthy role models that is!

11/25/2007 8:00:00 AM
Lisa Druxman
Written by Lisa Druxman
I am the founder of FIT4MOM, the country’s largest fitness program for moms. We offer stroller-based workouts that are fitness for mom and fun for baby. I am a mom first and foremost and love to blend my passion for fitness with motherhood. I am the author of Lean Mommy, a book which I hope inspires moms to be healthy ro...
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Comments
Posted by Mary Kay Morgan, MS CPT
Exactly! Underneath my structural satire in my personal blog on this subject, I hinted that it’s women in general- not just mothers. Why are we doing this to ourselves? And what about the young girls out there that see Brittany and Paris on magazine covers with their hoo-haa’s exposed for the world to see? I would love to see more mothers wear their “birthmarks” proudly and be proud of how beautiful they truly are! When these girls see a healthy example in their own homes first they may not be as enamored with Hollywood.
Posted by Lisa
After reading my own blog, I want to comment that I am not placing judgment on any woman who has made the choice to nip/tuck. There is a lot of pressure in our society and I know that some women feel so much better after making that choice. Please realize that it is my concern for the message that this is acceptable and the norm for moms today.
Posted by Lisa Druxman
I just read that article, Lisa - horrible! I just can't believe how these plastic surgeons promote what they do as necessary. You're right, what kind of message do we send our kids when we opt for plastic surgery simply to look a little better; which to me is a cop-out, it's for lazy people who don't have the guts and commitment to create the body they want by eating healthy and exercising. I'm not a Mom yet, but plan to be very soon, and I'm already making sure I'm as healthy as possible before I even get pregnant to make sure everything is easier for me and baby later on. You said you don't want to judge those who have gotten a Mom Job, but I will. I think if it's not done for actual health reasons, those people are vain and lazy. Life is now about your baby and your family, not how great your boobs and butt look. If you want that look back then get to work - stop eating crap, get outside and walk or jog, get to the gym, do anything. To be so vain as to put yourself through SURGERY is nuts. HELLO PEOPLE, it's still surgery - you can die for pete's sake!!! Everyone wants the quick solutions these days, it's real sad.
Posted by Barbara

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