Posts by Jeff Forte

Why is love so hard for most people?From my perspective working with struggling couples, it's usually a lack of knowing what to do that allows intimacy and connection to drift silently away. What we don't know is in fact hurting our most treasured relationships.Whether we like it or not, we do model our relationship strategies from our parents and family members. You will ultimately have about the...
11/23/2023 5:00:00 AM
Many years ago I had a conversation with my wife that could have ended our marriage. And I have seen many couples engaged in the exact same cycle of relationship destruction.Here's what happened:My wife said something to me and I responded back. She accused me of having a “tone." Who, me?So now I am defending my “no tone."She now says something back with a “tone" in her voice. So I escalate with more...
11/11/2014 10:00:00 PM