Pit Bulls, Poodles, Pointers, and Pugs: How to Choose a Family Dog

I once loved a pit bull named Cheeseburger. He was big and strong, silly and social. He was wonderful with four kids he lived with.

As a dog trainer, I am often asked what breed is best for families. Unfortunately it's not a simple question.

Look beyond breed when choosing a dog. Do all pit bulls make good family pets? No. But some do. Similarly not all golden retrievers enjoy living with kids, but some do.

It's not about breed; it's about behavior.

The vital characteristic for a good family dog is a strong social drive. Choose a dog that loves people, not just tolerates them.

How can you tell? When you first meet a dog or puppy, stay still for 60 seconds and wait to see if the dog initiates social contact with you. Count the number of times the dog makes 2 seconds of gentle, physical contact with you. The more, the better.

Try stroking the dog's back three times, pausing briefly between strokes. Does the dog move closer and make gentle contact again? Next talk to the dog for 20 seconds before stopping abruptly. Does the dog try to get you to "wake up?"

The best family dogs will do more than meet us in the middle. They really enjoy being with people. Cheeseburger was a great family dog. By focusing on sociability, you can find a wonderful dog for your family too.

- Colleen Pelar, www.LivingWithKidsandDogs.com