Posts by Steffan Surdek

One day I was in a restaurant with a friend and we were talking about relationships. She was telling me about how hard she can be with her husband sometimes. Being the curious type, I asked her for some examples and asked her why she was acting this way with him.Her answer was interesting. It sounded something like: "This is the way I am so he needs to learn to deal with it". I then asked her if he...
6/29/2018 7:00:00 AM
It surprises me sometimes to see the impact we have on our kids as parents. There are times where we can be very demanding of them and they begin to feel like they cannot make mistakes with us.What do you do when your kids make mistakes? Do you chastise them or are you supportive of them? Do you tell them there is a "right way" to do things and a "wrong way"? In those discussions, how often does their...
5/5/2018 7:00:00 AM
Are you the type of person who is afraid to make mistakes? Does everything you do need to be perfect the first time and then every other single time you do it? How do you feel those times when perfection does not work out and you make a mistake?In your never-ending quest for perfection are you forgetting that practice makes perfect. Let's use professional athletes as an example, how do they get so...
3/28/2018 7:00:00 AM
A few years ago, I learned a big lesson while in an intensive coaching program. You do not need to go through life reacting to everything around you, it is possible to live a life that you design. It is not an easy process though, in this article I will share with you the top 4 lessons I learned doing this.1. Be clear on your intentionsWhat kind of life do you want to live? If you died tomorrow, what...
3/13/2018 7:00:00 AM