Seeing Mr. Jay and even THINKING about using this.."all positive..no punishment stuff" as I called it before I met him made me want to barf! I'm a firm believer in BUTT WHOOPINS and thought.."If I discipline her enough..it will eventually work and I'll break her of her bad behavior." but it just WOULD NOT work. So being an open-minded woman..I decided to give it a shot. What would I have to lose? NOTHING. Conscious Parenting isn't what I thought it was at all. Mr. Jay has opened my eyes and mind to a whole, other way of doing things and it really hasn't taken much effort at all. I was a definite skeptic but I'm not anymore. My daughter still has issues and is currently having a rough week but she has done TONS better after only 2 visits with Mr. Jay. Parents.. if you want things to improve YOU must be the one to make the effort..it's not always the child. In my case I thought it was her but it turned out to be mostly me..if it wasn't mainly me..changing wouldn't have done anything...but it did :) I HIGHLY recommend seeing Mr. Jay but only if you're willing to put forth the effort to listen, pay attention, learn, be VERY open-minded, and do everything YOU can do to improve you and your child's situation. Oh yeah and one thing I feel is very important (just my opinion) is holding yourself accountable for things. When I hold myself accountable for things I could easily blame on others or other things it helps me to remember what I need to do to improve. It's OK to be wrong..just admit it, take responsibility for it, and move on :) Learn from it. I would say so far..my life has improved more than my daughter's. I have starting viewing my entire LIFE in a totally different way just from viewing my parenting and my child in a different way. I'm very thankful that fate brought us to this man. Thank you GOD & thank you Mr. Jay!
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