In this week's episode of Your Best Life, Karl interviews Deborah Heisz who is the co-founder and editorial director of Live Happy LLC and Live Happy Magazine. Deborah has more than nine years of publishing experience and is the founding editor and chief of Success Magazine. During the show, Karl and Deborah discuss what makes us happy, being meaningful, and whether it is a destination or journey.
Main Questions Asked:
- What is your perspective on the problem of happiness?
- What kinds of things qualify for being meaningful?
- What is your daily practice, and what have you learned?
- What would people find if they grabbed a copy of Live Happy Magazine?
Key Lessons Learned:
- The concept of positive psychology has been bouncing around academic circles for more than twenty years.
- The important tenant of positive psychology is to teach everyday people how they can improve their lives and be happier.
- People are focused on outcomes instead of processes. “When I get this, I'll be happy."
- The achievement of a goal only presents a small window of happiness. Working toward the goal actually brings you more happiness, as it provides meaning.
What is Happines?
- Happiness is a skill. We need to unlearn bad behavior and retrain ourselves.
- Our happiness is only 50% dependent on our genetics, 10% dependent on our circumstances, and 40% on our daily actions and choices.
- Happiness is about choices we live everyday.
- We are hardwired to evaluate our happiness based on things we have or achievements.
- The five components that drive our happiness:
- 1) Positive emotions
- 2) Engagement
- 3) Positive accomplishments
- 4) Positive relationships
- 5) Meaning
When You're Happy
- People need to reframe their focus in order to be happy.
- When you are happy, you make better decisions.
- Happy workers earn 30% more than their less cheerful counterparts.
- If you focus on happiness, the success will come as opposed to focusing on success, which history and science show that it doesn't create happiness.
- Positive people are perceived as leaders.
- Laughter is one of the keys factors in elevating our mood.
- Meaning is one of the keys to happiness.
- Meaning can be reframed by asking, 'why is my job important?'
- Statistics show that happier people give more and are generous.
- Meaning is found in our relationships. 'How do I fit in my family or group of friends?'
- 'What is my ability to make a difference?'
- Longevity for older people is based on their human connections.
- Negativity is contagious.
- 30% of people in the office are geared toward positivity and don't express it because it doesn't feel welcome.
- You are what you consume. This includes what you read and watch.
Live Happy Magazine
- Mix of articles relating to the science of happiness and how it impacts individuals.
- Profiles of people who have made changes in their life in order to be happier.
- Tips to live a happier life.
- Inspiration and things to act on and change.
- There's no scandal or negativity, only things that help you lead a happier life.
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Links to Resources Mentioned
The Myths of Happiness
The Happiness Advantage
Give and Take
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