<?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8"?><feed xml:lang="en-us" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"><title type="text">Wellness Posts by PamelaSmale</title><subtitle type="text">Wellness Posts by PamelaSmale</subtitle><id>uuid:11c59be8-a778-432a-86ce-a748b7b9b983;id=63537</id><rights type="text">Copyright 2026, Wellness.com, Inc. All rights reserved.</rights><updated>2009-01-22T17:43:18Z</updated><category term="Wellness Posts" /><logo>https://s3.amazonaws.com/static.wellness.com/User.29445.square80.png</logo><author><name>Wellness.com, Inc.</name><uri>https://www.wellness.com/</uri><email>support@wellness.com</email></author><generator>Wellness.com Gazelle Rss Generator</generator><link rel="alternate" href="https://www.wellness.com/" /><entry><id>uuid:11c59be8-a778-432a-86ce-a748b7b9b983;id=63538</id><title type="text">How Women Relate to their Own sexuality...my book has begun</title><summary type="html">&lt;a href='http://www.wellness.com'&gt;Wellness.com&lt;/a&gt; - &lt;a href='https://www.wellness.com/blog/21572/how-women-relate-to-their-own-sexuality-my-book-has-begun/pamelasmale'&gt;How Women Relate to their Own sexuality...my book has begun&lt;/a&gt; by &lt;a href='https://www.wellness.com/user/29445/pamelasmale'&gt;PamelaSmale&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;     I have already started research and have notes on my book that is to be about the relationship between "erotica" (readings for women and/or couples, that enhance their sex lives) and other ways women may increase and enhance their sex drive or libidos. Althought I also work with men with this problem, women by far outnumber the men on this one. The problem for so many women is that they don't know themselves what it is that is arousing for them, therefore making it difficult to communicate to their partners.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;I'm excited to continue my work in this area and am finding out that there is a difference between pornography, erotica, and "romance novels"! It's amazing to me how many women enjoy romance novels and allow themselves to "let go" and feel in touch with that side of themselves in their private reading time, only to lock it up and throw away the key with their partners.&lt;br/&gt;More as my book progresses...&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Pamela Smale Williams LPC LMFT AAMFT&lt;br/&gt;Clinical member Amer. Assoc. of Marriage &amp; Family therapists&lt;br/&gt;OFFICE: 972-596-1338&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</summary><published>2009-01-22T17:43:18Z</published><updated>2026-04-18T12:09:24Z</updated><author><name>PamelaSmale</name><uri>https://www.wellness.com/user/29445/pamelasmale/blogs</uri><email>support@wellness.com</email></author><link rel="alternate" href="https://www.wellness.com/blog/21572/how-women-relate-to-their-own-sexuality-my-book-has-begun/pamelasmale" /></entry></feed>