Lose 40 pounds

okay everyone I see no one has written on the board so I guess I will start. I really want to lose weight and I have a workout nut at home he bikes and runs and uses the bowflex, but never does he do it with me. I need support from someone who knows how it is to be overweight and self conscious about what your wearing, you know, is it too tight, do I at least look good those kind of thoughts go through your head. I am willing to start exercising , but I think I will keep in gear if I have someone to report to a workout- online buddy. There is no reason to lie to each other, but just support each other. whose in with me.